Saturday, January 17, 2015

Rambling Reflections

As I sit here typing this new and updated blog post, I am reflecting on this past year thus far.

Last year, I learned an incredible amount about myself.

I learned that I have grown from a quiet and shy girl, to an outspoken and passionate middle -aged twenty-something young woman.

I learned that my heart is in education and in advocating for students, working to improve the educational system, and always learning more about my field.

I learned that I will probably, always be in school, or, at the very least, learning something new all of the time.

I learned that it is imperative to surround myself with all sorts of people, but to especially, and most importantly, be open to new opportunities and new adventures.

I learned that friendships come in the most unlikely places.

I learned that friendships resemble the stages of the moon and are always waxing and waning.

I learned that when I strive to put myself "out there" for the cause and good of this world, I am making a statement about my beliefs.

I learned that in order for me to improve, I must first make mistakes. Then, the growing process can begin. However, I cannot be afraid of making mistakes, nor is it healthy to lament on past failures, but rather, to learn from them and to move on in positive directions.

I learned that healthy vulnerability is the key to maintaining and having lasting and fruitful friendships. One must risk a little in order to receive. One must pursue in order to be pursued.

Enjoy the "moments" instead of wondering if this "moment" is the particular "one" of something greater.

Be comfortable with yourself and the stage of life that you find yourself in.

Seasons change. People change. The smallest changes can, and perhaps, be the biggest and most necessary changes of your life that have the ability to have the greatest impact on your identity and your future.

You are NOT your work. Neither is your work YOU. They are separate entities and should be treated as such. However, your work should reflect your passions and core beliefs as realistically as possible.

Take some "you" time for at least 5 minutes every day.

One day of the week MUST be entirely for you to rest and recoup.

Not everyone is who they say "or portray" themselves to be. Likewise, don't write off everyone due to small discrepancies that society often says "can" and "won't" work.

We are all worthy of love, to be loved, and to have loved.

And, finally, great things truly do come to those who wait. The package itself may look a little different, but the purpose inside is honestly, quite beautiful.