The Road to Transitions

Life is all about transitions.

Once you feel like you have mastered the art of navigating transitions, you'll most likely be thrown into another one again. At least, that's how life has been for me.

Throughout my life, I have felt an expanse of transitions. Going from elementary to middle school, is huge in itself. Just think, you're being trained to think from a first grade mindset to a sixth grade mindset. Those five to six years are crucial for developmental stages, making friends, learning academics, and being social, among other things. Then, from middle school, you go on to high school. It's a place where teenagers are dealing with real-life situations first hand and teachers are able to offer them advice when asked. Teachers help prepare the high school student for life post-graduation; whether that's college, work, travel, or a mix of all three.

I think it's quite fair to make the statement that we all go through transitions. After college, I went into substitute teaching - which helped to prepare me for my first full-time teaching job that I have now. Yet, another transition. The training has been very worthwhile and I have come home with a plethora of information at the end of each day. I know that I will probably be filling up countless notebooks with helpful literature and keynote speakers "words of wisdom" from Professional Development training throughout this school year.

Yes, it's true that sometimes the unknown is a little scary; the uncertainty may make some apprehensive. But, I feel that if we, as humankind, were not given the ability to experience these emotions, we would never know life from this perspective. From my experience, I was given this ability to feel emotions when I was created by God. I would never have the ability to empathize with my neighbors about life and the immense hurdles and triumphs that it brings without such emotions.

On an unrelated note but another great example nonetheless, I fully expect that on my first date (see previous blog post: 24 and single) - I will probably be nervous and excited all at the same time. However, if I already feel comfortable with that particular person and have taken the opportunity to get to know him in group settings, then, the whole date (and relationship) will (hopefully!) be better. I feel that if a relationship blossoms out of an initial friendship - the two will work hand-in-hand with each other.

So, I believe that it is because of my willingness to learn, that I have been able to enter the teaching profession with an open heart. My college years and practicum training have fully prepared me for the role that lay ahead. I'm quite excited to be with a group of students that I get to invest in each and every day and be able to have the opportunity to impact their lives. I expect to see those impacts in tangible ways (albeit, sometimes it takes a while) and other times in ways that I cannot see, nor may not ever get to see.

But the reality is, that whatever you are doing, whatever profession you find yourself in, you will experience transitions. You will even experience transitions outside of your careers - for example, expecting a baby, going on a date, moving to a new place, getting married, etc. I feel that it is so important to approach each of these transitions with a fresh and open mindset and not to allow yourself to be swayed by other people's opinions of a particular transition, journey, end goal, or life stage. You are being taken on this journey of life and it is only, the unique you that is living that dream. So, make the most of it!

For me, my passion is teaching. I will talk to anyone and everyone about teaching if/when I have the opportunity! My training has opened up the door to shine a light in the room that I was standing in. When the light was turned on, I saw how my face shone whenever I talked about teaching. It's what I was born to do and I can't imagine myself doing anything else for the rest of my life (career wise, that is.)

Today was my first day of  "official training" as a new, first year teacher (though it feels like I've received so much training already, and I am so grateful for even more!) The speaker talked about how, as a teacher, I am called to "help prepare students for a world that I may never see." This quote helped me to see this profession from a different perspective. A perspective, in which my ultimate end goal is to help assist my students in preparing for life. And, if you ask me, that's a pretty rewarding, challenging, and exciting profession and transition.